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Thom Barry

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Thom Barry, LCSW

Tennessee

LCSW - Anger and Emotional Regulation

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Key details

  • CredentialsLCSW
  • LicenseLCSW, Tennessee / 7131
  • NPI1396240347
  • Experience8 years
  • LanguagesEnglish
  • LocationTennessee

About

  • Stress and anxiety
  • Practical skills
  • Attachment focus

About Thom

Thom Barry is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) in Tennessee with eight years of clinical experience. He works with adults who are dealing with stress, anxiety, anger, addictions, trauma, depression, relationship and intimacy concerns, grief, ADHD, and related challenges.

Thom describes problems as signals that the strategies people have used aren’t working anymore. He focuses on building a reliable working relationship so clients can try different ways of responding. Sessions aim to help people sort through what they are feeling and thinking, and to test small, practical changes that fit daily life.

He uses plain language rather than jargon. Thom often talks about an invisible bucket that fills up with stressors. The work begins by emptying that bucket and finding ways to keep it from overflowing again. He mixes conversation, practical exercises, and collaborative planning to reduce reactive patterns and manage strong emotions more effectively.

Thom helps people learn skills and strategies they can use between sessions. He encourages experimentation and steady practice, likening progress to learning a new physical skill like a backflip - simple to understand but requiring practice. He also aims to make the process as low-stress as possible and will adapt sessions to clients' needs.

People who want straightforward guidance, behavioral tools, and a focus on changing patterns may find his style useful. He invites clients to work on clear goals and to track small wins along the way.

How sessions work

Therapeutic approaches and online delivery

Thom commonly integrates Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and Client-Centered Therapy into his work. CBT focuses on identifying unhelpful thoughts and testing new behaviors to reduce reactivity and improve mood. Client-centered work centers on listening closely, reflecting what the client says, and shaping the process around the client’s priorities and pace.

Finding the right approach is a collaborative process. Thom will work with the client to decide which methods fit their goals, needs, and preferences, adjusting the plan as progress unfolds. He frames the work as experimenting with small changes and tracking what helps most.

The original biography does not list explicit session formats, so confirm the available online options before booking. In general, online sessions can make it easier to fit therapy into a busy week, allow shorter check-ins when needed, and reduce travel time. Talk with Thom about the practicalities so sessions can be scheduled and structured to match everyday life.

Areas of focus

Areas of expertise

Also works with

LGBTRelationship issuesFamily conflictsGriefIntimacy-related issuesSleeping disordersAnger managementBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAging and geriatric issuesAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeBlended family issuesCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCo-morbidityCodependencyCommunication problemsControl issuesDependent personalityDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationDivorce and separationDrug and alcohol addictionEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHoardingHospice and end-of-life counselingImpulsivityInfidelityIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesMood disordersObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPhobiasPost-traumatic stressProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaSomatizationWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Gottman MethodJungian TherapyMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapySomatic TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

8+ years

Listed in

Tennessee

Languages

English

Questions

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does he help with?

He works with stress, anxiety, anger, addictions, trauma, depression, relationship and intimacy issues, grief, ADHD, and related concerns listed in his profile.

What is his therapeutic style like?

He uses plain language and a collaborative tone, focusing on building a working relationship and trying practical strategies to change unhelpful patterns.

How much clinical experience does he have?

He has eight years of experience as a clinician working with adults on a range of emotional and behavioral concerns.

Is he a licensed clinician and where is he based?

He is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) licensed in Tennessee.

Which languages are sessions offered in?

Sessions are offered in English and international clients are accepted.

What session formats are available?

The original biography does not list specific session formats. Please confirm current session options before booking.

How are sessions charged?

Cost varies with location and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with him?

Select the See online therapy options button, complete the short matching questionnaire, and schedule a first session.

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