Counsellor profile
Sharmi Gowri-Kriszyk, NCPS
United Kingdom
NCPS therapist - Trauma and anger support
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- CredentialsNCPS
- RegistrationNCPS, United Kingdom / NCS23-03556
- Experience21 years
- LanguagesEnglish, Danish, Tamil
- LocationUnited Kingdom
About
- Attachment-based work
- CBT and DBT tools
- EMDR informed approaches
About Sharmi
Sharmi Gowri-Kriszyk is an NCPS Therapist - Accredited Member (MNCPS Accred) with 21 years of experience working in the mental health field in the United Kingdom. She supports people facing stress, anxiety, addictions, grief, sleeping and eating difficulties, mood conditions such as depression and bipolar, ADHD, and anger. She also addresses trauma, attachment difficulties, parenting and intimacy-related problems. Sessions are offered in English, Danish and Tamil.
Sharmi's background includes advanced study to doctorate level in psychology and counselling or psychotherapy, and a long history of additional training focused on trauma. She describes her work as trauma-informed and trauma-sensitive, and uses approaches that address both bodily and memory-based responses to distress. That means she pays attention to how the body holds stress and to subtle, often unconscious triggers.
In practice she keeps things straightforward. She helps people talk through triggers, strong emotions, and patterns that lead to repeated conflict or shame. She uses methods drawn from attachment work, cognitive-behavioural ideas, dialectical strategies and EMDR-style approaches to help process traumatic memories and reduce their hold on daily life.
Clients may bring a history of abuse, neglect, loss or developmental trauma, or they may be trying to manage ongoing relationship strain, parenting pressures, or workplace frustration. Sharmi aims to help people recognise patterns, learn practical skills to manage intense feelings, and reduce cycles of reactivity.
Her international practice has worked with adults, young people and parents. Before booking, confirm session formats and any scheduling details to make sure they fit your needs.
How sessions work
Therapeutic approaches and online sessions
Sharmi commonly integrates attachment-based work, cognitive-behavioural techniques and EMDR-informed methods in her practice. Attachment-based work looks at how early relationships shape current reactions and helps people identify linked patterns in close relationships. Cognitive-behavioural approaches focus on spotting unhelpful thinking and testing new behaviours to reduce reactivity and manage anger. EMDR-informed methods work with memory networks and bodily responses to help process traumatic or distressing memories.Deciding which approach to use is part of the work with the therapist. She will collaborate with clients to identify goals, preferences and what feels most helpful. That means trying methods, reviewing what helps, and adapting the plan as needed so techniques match the problem and the person's comfort.
Confirm current session options before booking so you know how sessions are run. Many people find online sessions make it easier to fit therapy into a working week, allow shorter check-ins when time is limited, or reduce travel. Online work can also make it easier to continue therapy if you live away from the therapist's location. Check the session format details when you book to pick what suits your schedule and needs.
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Experience
21+ years
Listed in
United Kingdom
Languages
English, Danish, Tamil
Questions
Frequently asked questions
What concerns does she help with?
She supports people with anger, stress, anxiety, addictions, trauma, grief, mood conditions, sleep and eating issues, and relationship or parenting strain.
What is her therapeutic style like?
She describes her work as trauma-informed and trauma-sensitive, focusing on body responses and triggers alongside talking therapy.
How much clinical experience does she have?
She has 21 years of professional experience in the mental health sector and doctoral-level study in psychology and counselling or psychotherapy.
What credential does she hold and where is she based?
She is an NCPS Therapist - Accredited Member (MNCPS Accred) and practises from the United Kingdom.
Which languages can sessions be held in?
Sessions are offered in English, Danish and Tamil.
Can international clients work with her?
Yes, she accepts international clients; confirm session options when you book to match time zones and formats.
How are sessions organised and what do they cost?
Cost varies with location and sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time; check the listing for current pricing details.
How do I begin a first session?
Select the See online therapy options button, complete the short matching questionnaire, and schedule your initial session.
Details come from information the counsellor supplied to BetterHelp. A registration can be checked with the body that issued it.
Online talk therapy is not emergency care. If anyone is unsafe, use the crisis numbers.