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Paula Donovan

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Paula Donovan, LCSW

Virginia

Licensed Clinical Social Worker - stress and relationships

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Key details

  • CredentialsLCSW
  • LicenseLCSW, Virginia / 0904007247
  • NPI1619204419
  • Experience20 years
  • LanguagesEnglish
  • LocationVirginia

About

  • Anger management
  • CBT and DBT skills
  • Mindfulness practice

About Paula

Paula Donovan is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) with 20 years of experience helping adults manage stress, anxiety, relationship strains, grief, and anger. She trained after an earlier career and brings long experience living and working in different countries to her practice. Paula works in Virginia and holds a practical, down-to-earth approach to therapy.

She starts from the view that each person knows their life best. Paula listens for what already works and what gets in the way. Sessions focus on identifying everyday patterns, strengths, and small changes that can reduce tension and frustration. She uses plain language and an unhurried style rather than clinical jargon.

Paula draws on Client-Centered Therapy to build a trusting working relationship. She also uses Cognitive Behavioral Therapy to spot unhelpful thinking and Dialectical Behavior Therapy skills for emotion regulation. Mindfulness practices and Motivational Interviewing are woven in when useful to support behavior change and coping.

Paula helps people facing difficult life events such as loss, illness, or divorce. She also supports those dealing with addictions, parenting stress, career transitions, and the ongoing wear of caregiving. Anger, resentment, and frequent snapping at loved ones are named concerns she addresses with concrete strategies.

Her style is straightforward and often gently humorous. Paula emphasizes practical steps you can try between sessions. She invites people who are tired of feeling stuck to explore clearer ways to manage feelings and reconnect with what matters to them.

How sessions work

How Paula’s approaches translate to online sessions

Paula commonly uses Client-Centered Therapy to prioritize the person’s own perspective and build a practical working relationship. That approach focuses on listening, clarifying what matters, and supporting the client to make changes they choose.

She also uses Cognitive Behavioral Therapy to help people notice and shift thoughts and behaviors that feed anger and anxiety. CBT offers concrete exercises and small experiments to test new ways of responding. Dialectical Behavior Therapy skills are used when stronger emotional regulation or distress tolerance is needed; these are practical tools for calming down and staying present during intense moments.

Finding the right mix of approaches is part of the work. Paula will discuss goals, preferences, and day-to-day demands with each person and recommend which methods to try first. This is a collaborative process and may shift over time as needs change.

Confirm the therapist's current session options before booking. When arranged online, sessions can make it easier to fit therapy into a busy life by reducing travel time and allowing shorter check-ins when needed. Some formats may be better for quick skill practice, while others suit deeper conversations; the therapist will help decide what works best for the client.

Areas of focus

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigue

Additional focus areas

Aging and geriatric issuesCaregiver issues and stressCo-morbidityCodependencyDivorce and separationDomestic violenceFertility issuesGuilt and shameHospice and end-of-life counselingInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessMen's issuesMidlife crisisMood disordersMulticultural concernsPanic disorder and panic attacksPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressSeasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Sexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaSomatizationWomen's issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Mindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySomatic TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

20+ years

Listed in

Virginia

Languages

English

Questions

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does she work with?

She helps with stress, anxiety, relationship issues, grief, depression, anger, addictions, and related life challenges.

What is her therapeutic style?

She uses a practical, client-centered approach and draws on CBT and DBT skills to reduce unhelpful patterns and manage strong emotions.

How long has she practiced?

She has 20 years of clinical experience working with adults in a range of situations.

What are her credentials and where does she practice?

She is a VA LCSW and practices in Virginia.

Does she offer sessions in other languages?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can international clients work with her?

She does not accept international clients at this time.

How are sessions arranged and paid for?

Cost varies with location and sessions use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with her?

Select the See online therapy options button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule a first session.

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