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Mary McLaggan

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Mary McLaggan, LPC, LMHC

Iowa

Licensed counselor - Anger and relationships

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Key details

  • CredentialsLPC, LMHC
  • LicenseLPC, Texas / 19406; LMHC, Iowa / 121856
  • NPI1649449760
  • Experience20 years
  • LanguagesEnglish, Spanish
  • LocationIowa

About

  • CBT methods
  • DBT skills
  • Attachment focus

About Mary

Mary McLaggan is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) and a Licensed Mental Health Counselor (LMHC) with 20 years of experience. She practices in Iowa and offers therapy in English and Spanish. She works with adults facing stress, anxiety, depression, ADHD, relationship strain, grief, parenting pressures, and anger among other concerns.

Her approach is straightforward and practical. She listens to what is happening day to day, helps identify patterns, and works with clients to try different skills. Sessions focus on concrete tools as well as understanding how past attachment and relationship experiences shape current reactions.

Mary uses several clinical approaches to guide the work. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) helps people recognize and change unhelpful thinking and behavior. Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) offers skills for regulating emotions and improving how people respond in heated moments. Attachment-Based and Client-Centered ideas inform how she explores relationship patterns and builds collaborative goals.

She adapts conversations and interventions to the individual’s needs and preferences. That can mean practicing new responses in session, rehearsing difficult conversations, or developing breathing and grounding steps for when anger rises. The focus is on practical steps that can be tried between sessions.

Mary’s background includes two decades of client work across a range of concerns such as trauma, intimacy issues, career stress, and parenting strain. She aims to help adults strengthen coping skills, reduce reactive responses, and improve communication in daily life.

How sessions work

How Mary applies core approaches in online sessions

Mary commonly draws on Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and Dialectical Behavior Therapy in her work. CBT focuses on noticing thought patterns and testing them with practical experiments to change how people feel and act. This can help with anger that stems from quick negative assumptions or unhelpful thinking. DBT provides concrete emotion regulation and distress tolerance skills, which are useful for managing sudden spikes in anger and for responding differently in tense moments.

She also uses Attachment-Based and Client-Centered perspectives to understand relationship patterns and to shape collaborative goals. Together these approaches help clarify why certain situations trigger strong reactions and which skills to try first. Finding the right mix of techniques is part of the work; Mary will help clients choose approaches based on their needs, goals, and personal preferences rather than prescribing one fixed method.

Confirm the currently offered session formats before booking, as the biography does not list specific options. Online sessions can make it easier to fit therapy into a work break, reduce travel time, or keep sessions shorter when that suits daily life. Many people appreciate being able to practice skills between meetings and then review what worked in the next session, which helps translate in-session learning into real-world change.

Areas of focus

Areas of expertise

Also works with

LGBTRelationship issuesFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseGriefIntimacy-related issuesSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCompassion fatigue

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesBody imageCaregiver issues and stressCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDivorce and separationDomestic violenceEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsForgivenessGuilt and shameHoardingImmigration issuesImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMidlife crisisMood disordersNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Existential TherapyMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

20+ years

Listed in

Texas, Iowa

Languages

English, Spanish

Questions

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of anger issues does she address?

She works with adults who snap at loved ones, feel rising resentment, struggle with anger at work, or are affected by someone else’s anger.

What is her therapeutic style?

Her style is practical and collaborative, combining talk with skill practice and problem-solving geared to everyday life.

How much clinical experience does she have?

She has 20 years of professional experience working with a wide range of concerns including stress, anxiety, and trauma.

What credentials and location apply?

She holds LPC and LMHC credentials and practices in Iowa with license designations TX LPC and IA LMHC noted in her background.

Which languages are supported?

Sessions are offered in English and Spanish.

What session formats are available?

Please confirm current session options before booking since the biography does not list specific session formats.

How are fees handled?

Cost varies with location; sessions use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.

How do I start a first session?

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