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Lydia Frazier

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Lydia Frazier, LISW

Iowa

LISW in Iowa - Anger and Relationship concerns

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Key details

  • CredentialsLISW
  • LicenseLISW, Iowa / 05464
  • NPI1164586855
  • Experience25 years
  • LanguagesEnglish
  • LocationIowa

About

  • CBT strategies
  • ACT techniques
  • Attachment focus

About Lydia

Lydia Frazier is an Iowa-licensed independent social worker (LISW) with 25 years of clinical experience. She helps people who are dealing with stress, anxiety, depression, anger, relationship issues, trauma and abuse, and related concerns. Lydia also works with people facing addictions, grief, parenting strain, career stress, ADHD, and problems with intimacy or self-esteem.

Her approach blends several practical methods rather than relying on a single technique. Lydia draws from cognitive behavioral work, acceptance and commitment ideas, attachment-based thinking, dialectical behavior strategies, and client-centered practices. Sessions focus on what is getting in the way now and on building skills to manage strong feelings and improve daily functioning.

Lydia listens for patterns rooted in early relationships, current routines, and biological factors like sleep and activity. She talks through how those patterns affect mood, anger, and relationship interactions. Together with the client she outlines small, concrete steps to reduce reactivity and improve communication.

She describes treatment as individualized and strength-focused. That means using techniques that fit the person’s goals and abilities, and emphasizing practical tools that can be used outside sessions. Lydia also considers social and family background as part of the plan.

The therapy process includes setting clear goals, trying evidence-based strategies, and checking what works. People who want straightforward guidance for managing anger, rebuilding connection, or coping with life changes may find this approach useful. To begin, follow the site’s matching and scheduling steps.

How sessions work

How her approaches translate to online work

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) helps people notice difficult thoughts and feelings without letting those reactions drive behavior. It emphasizes values-based actions and can be useful for anger that leads to regret or avoidance. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) focuses on identifying unhelpful thinking and testing new behaviors. CBT offers concrete exercises to change patterns that fuel anxiety, depression, and reactive anger. Attachment-Based Therapy looks at how early relationships influence current emotional responses and relational patterns, which can clarify why certain situations trigger strong reactions.

Choosing the right approach is part of the work. Lydia will collaborate with each person to identify goals and try methods that fit their needs and preferences. She adjusts pace and tools based on what helps most, and checks in regularly about progress.

The original biography does not specify session formats, so confirm available options before booking. Online sessions can make it easier to schedule therapy around work, caregiving, or school. They also let people use brief check-ins when a full session is not needed, reduce travel time, and allow practicing skills in everyday settings. Discuss practical needs up front and Lydia can recommend approaches and session rhythms that fit daily life.

Areas of focus

Areas of expertise

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTFamily conflictsGriefIntimacy-related issuesParenting issuesAnger managementCareer difficultiesCoping with life changesCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAttachment issuesBlended family issuesBody imageCaregiver issues and stressCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHoardingImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMood disordersObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-loveSexual assault and abuseSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaSomatizationWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Mindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

25+ years

Listed in

Iowa

Languages

English

Questions

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems does she work with?

She helps with stress, anxiety, depression, anger, trauma and relationship issues, plus related areas such as grief, parenting strain, ADHD, and addictions.

What is her therapeutic style?

She uses an individualized, eclectic approach that draws from CBT, ACT, DBT, attachment-based and client-centered ideas to build practical skills.

How much clinical experience does she have?

Lydia has 25 years of experience in clinical practice.

What are her credentials and where is she located?

She holds the LISW credential and practices in Iowa.

Are sessions offered in other languages or internationally?

Sessions are offered in English and she is not accepting international clients.

What session formats are available?

The original biography does not list session formats. Please confirm current session options before booking.

How does payment work and what does it cost?

Cost varies by location and sessions use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.

How do I get started with scheduling?

Select the See online therapy options button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule your first session.

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Online talk therapy is not emergency care. If anyone is unsafe, use the crisis numbers.

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