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Lori Gordon

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Lori Gordon, LCSW

Missouri

LCSW - Anger and Relationship Concerns

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Key details

  • CredentialsLCSW
  • LicenseLCSW, Missouri / 2008011624
  • NPI1831330018
  • Experience16 years
  • LanguagesEnglish
  • LocationMissouri

About

  • CBT strategies
  • ACT values work
  • DBT skills

About Lori

Lori Gordon is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) practicing in Missouri with 16 years of experience. She works with adults facing stress, anxiety, relationship strains, trauma and abuse, and depression. She also supports people dealing with anger, grief, self-esteem concerns, parenting pressures, and career-related stress.

Her approach is straightforward and practical. Sessions focus on clear goals and usable skills. Lori draws from cognitive behavioral ideas to spot unhelpful thoughts and from Acceptance and Commitment Therapy to clarify values and choices. She also uses client-centered listening and elements of dialectical behavior and emotionally-focused work when appropriate.

In a typical session she listens for what matters most to the client, then helps identify small, concrete steps. That might mean practicing short breathing or grounding exercises, testing a different response in a tense conversation, or trying a new routine to improve sleep. Lori describes therapy as a collaborative effort where the client's priorities guide the work.

She also pays attention to longer-standing patterns such as attachment, abandonment, or family of origin issues that often underlie repeated conflicts. For people managing chronic pain, illness, or disability, she brings practical coping strategies that fit day-to-day life. Other focus areas include forgiveness, guilt and shame, and problems with control or hoarding.

Sessions are offered in English and follow professional social work standards. Lori asks new clients to complete a brief matching questionnaire to begin, then schedule a first session to talk through goals and next steps.

How sessions work

Therapeutic approaches and online sessions

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) encourages noticing thoughts and choosing actions that align with personal values. It can help when anger comes from feeling pushed away from what's important. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) focuses on recognizing thought patterns and testing small behavioral changes to reduce reactivity and improve mood.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. Lori will collaborate with each person to decide which methods fit best based on goals and preferences. That means starting with practical steps, then adjusting techniques as needed rather than committing to one fixed method.

Confirm the current online session options before booking since formats are not listed here. Online work can make sessions easier to fit into a week, allow shorter check-ins when schedules are tight, or avoid travel time so changes can be practiced between meetings. Licensed professionals often use these practical benefits to help clients try new ways of responding to anger in everyday situations.

Areas of focus

Areas of expertise

Also works with

LGBTFamily conflictsGriefIntimacy-related issuesSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementCareer difficultiesCoping with life changesADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAttachment issuesChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDivorce and separationDomestic violenceEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsForgivenessGuilt and shameHoardingInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsPanic disorder and panic attacksPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationSelf-loveSexual assault and abuseWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Mindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingSolution-Focused Therapy

Experience

16+ years

Listed in

Missouri

Languages

English

Questions

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems does she address related to anger?

She helps with snapping at loved ones, workplace frustration, built-up resentment, and anger related to trauma or relationship conflict.

What is her therapeutic style for managing temper?

She practices a mix of client-centered listening and action-focused methods like CBT and ACT to build awareness and new responses.

How much experience does she have working with these concerns?

She has 16 years of professional experience helping people with stress, anxiety, trauma, depression, and related issues.

What credentials and location apply to her practice?

She is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) licensed in Missouri and practices there.

Does she offer sessions in other languages or to international clients?

Sessions are offered in English. She is not accepting international clients at this time.

What session formats are available for meeting?

Please confirm current session options before booking by checking the platform details or asking directly, as formats are not specified here.

How are fees and payment handled?

Cost varies with location and sessions use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with her?

Select the See online therapy options button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule a first session to get started.

Details come from information the therapist supplied to BetterHelp. A license can be checked with the state board.

Online talk therapy is not emergency care. If anyone is unsafe, use the crisis numbers.

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