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Joanne Lilley

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Joanne Lilley, BACP

United Kingdom

Person Centred counsellor - Stress and relationships

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Key details

  • CredentialsBACP
  • RegistrationBACP, United Kingdom / 383428
  • Experience16 years
  • LanguagesEnglish
  • LocationUnited Kingdom

About

  • Person Centred Therapy
  • Work and family stress
  • Anger and relationships

About Joanne

Joanne Lilley is a Person Centred counsellor registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) and has 16 years of professional experience. She works in English from the United Kingdom and helps people dealing with stress, anxiety, relationship problems and anger.

Joanne concentrates on straightforward, conversational therapy. She listens to what matters to each person and builds sessions around those concerns. Sessions often focus on immediate problems such as work stress, sleep disruption or conflicts that keep repeating.

She also supports people with longer standing issues. That includes trauma and abuse, grief, addiction and low self-esteem. Joanne mentions experience with ADHD, bipolar disorder and co-morbidity while noting she does not provide diagnostic services.

Family and parenting concerns are part of her practice, as are intimacy-related and identity matters including LGBT topics. She also lists other areas such as chronic illness, body image, adoption and attachment issues.

Joanne uses Person Centred or Client-Centred work, which keeps the person and their goals at the heart of sessions. The focus is on listening, reflecting and helping people discover clearer options for change. Her style is practical and direct, aiming to help people manage anger, cope with life changes and improve daily functioning.

To begin she asks people to choose a time and complete an initial matching step, then schedule a first session. She is clear that diagnostic assessments should be sought from a GP or other medical professional rather than through counselling.

How sessions work

Client-Centred practice and online counselling

Client-Centred Therapy focuses on listening, acceptance and helping people find their own solutions. It is useful for issues like low self-esteem, relationship conflict and managing anger because the therapist follows what matters most to the person and reflects it back in clear language.

In sessions the counsellor offers simple, practical conversation rather than direct advice. That approach helps when someone needs to sort out work stress, recurring arguments or emotional overwhelm. It can also support people working through grief, trauma responses or addiction concerns by pacing the work to the individual.

Finding the right approach is a collaborative process. Joanne will work with each person to decide whether a Client-Centred way of working fits their needs, goals and preferences. If adjustments are helpful, she will discuss them so the client feels involved in shaping the work.

Please confirm the current session formats before booking since the biography does not list specific options. Online counselling can make it easier to fit sessions around work or family commitments, reduce travel time and allow shorter check-ins when needed. Many people find remote sessions help maintain continuity of care and keep therapeutic work present in everyday life.

Areas of focus

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyFamily conflictsParenting issuesSelf esteemADHD

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTRelationship issuesTrauma and abuseGriefIntimacy-related issuesSleeping disordersAnger managementCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderDepressionCoping with life changesCompassion fatigue

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesBody imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHearing impairedHIV / AIDSHoardingImmigration issuesImpulsivityInfidelityIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaSomatizationTrichotillomaniaVisually impairedWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered Therapy

Experience

16+ years

Listed in

United Kingdom

Languages

English

Questions

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems does she help with?

She works with stress, anxiety, relationship issues and anger among many other concerns such as grief, addiction and low self-esteem.

What is her therapeutic style like?

She practises a Person Centred or Client-Centred approach that focuses on listening and helping people find their own solutions.

How much experience does she have?

She has 16 years of professional experience working as a counsellor in the UK.

What are her credentials and where is she based?

She is registered with the BACP and works from the United Kingdom.

Can I work with her if I live outside the UK?

Sessions are offered to international clients and she works in English.

What session formats are available?

Please confirm current session options before booking as formats are not specified in the biography.

How much do sessions cost?

Cost varies with location and sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I get started with a first session?

Select the See online therapy options button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule a first session.

Details come from information the counsellor supplied to BetterHelp. A registration can be checked with the body that issued it.

Online talk therapy is not emergency care. If anyone is unsafe, use the crisis numbers.

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