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Janet Lengsfelder

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Janet Lengsfelder, LMFT

California

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist - Relationships and Anger

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Key details

  • CredentialsLMFT
  • LicenseLMFT, California / 36041
  • NPI1407470446
  • Experience25 years
  • LanguagesEnglish
  • LocationCalifornia

About

  • Attachment-based work
  • Emotionally-Focused Therapy
  • Mindfulness practice

About Janet

Janet Lengsfelder is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) in California with 25 years of clinical experience. She began her career as a nurse and later completed a graduate degree and additional training in Gestalt therapy. Janet works with adults on concerns such as stress, anxiety, depression, relationship problems, grief, parenting strain, addictions, trauma and anger.

Her clinical style draws on attachment-based work, client-centered methods, Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT), the Gottman Method, and mindfulness practices. She helps people notice recurring life themes and patterns that shape reactions and relationships. Sessions focus on increasing self-awareness and building a steadier sense of self so feelings feel more manageable.

Janet uses everyday language in sessions and aims to translate difficult emotions into understandable steps. She describes therapy as a place to practice new ways of responding rather than to erase hard feelings. This practical focus can change how anxiety and panic are experienced, shifting them into disappointment or sadness that can be worked through.

Her background in nursing informs a pragmatic approach to care and recovery. That experience shaped her interest in supporting people who need both emotional and life-focused help, such as caregivers or those facing illness and end-of-life issues.

Janet encourages clients to take measured risks toward fuller living. She offers thoughtful challenge alongside steady support so people can learn from hard times and move toward moments of genuine joy.

How sessions work

How Janet’s approaches translate to online work

Attachment-Based Therapy focuses on how early relationship patterns affect current bonds and comfort with closeness. It looks at how people respond under stress and helps shift those patterns toward more secure connection. Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT) helps people identify and name their core emotions, and then use that awareness to change interaction cycles that fuel conflict and anger. Client-Centered Therapy centers the person’s experience and emphasizes listening and reflection so people feel heard and can make their own choices. Finding the right approach is part of the work. Janet will collaborate with each person to choose methods that match their goals, concerns, and preferences. That can mean trying one approach for a while and adjusting as needed based on what helps most. Confirm session formats before booking because the biography does not list specific options. Online work can still be practical: it can fit into a lunch break, remove commuting time, or allow a shorter check-in when schedules are tight. Some formats use less bandwidth or do not require video, which can make a session easier on busy days. Talk with Janet about what will integrate best with everyday life and routines so therapy can be a manageable part of moving forward.

Areas of focus

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesGriefParenting issuesDepression

Also works with

AddictionsFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseIntimacy-related issuesAnger managementCareer difficultiesCoaching

Additional focus areas

Attachment issuesCancerCaregiver issues and stressCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDivorce and separationEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFirst responder issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHospice and end-of-life counselingImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMidlife crisisObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksPhobiasPostpartum depressionProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Self-loveSex addictionSexualitySmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyEmotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Gottman MethodMindfulness TherapySolution-Focused Therapy

Experience

25+ years

Listed in

California

Languages

English

Questions

Frequently asked questions

What issues does she address related to anger?

She works with adults on anger alongside concerns like stress, relationship conflict, trauma, and grief.

What is her general approach to therapy?

She blends attachment-based, client-centered, and Emotionally-Focused Therapy approaches to build self-awareness and more manageable emotional responses.

How much clinical experience does she have?

She has 25 years of experience, including a background as a nurse and graduate training followed by Gestalt therapy study.

What are her credentials and where is she based?

She is a California Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) practicing in California.

Can I work with her if I live outside the United States?

Sessions are offered in English and she does not accept international clients at this time.

What session formats are offered?

Please confirm current session format options before booking, as the biography does not list specific formats.

How are sessions paid for and what does it cost?

Cost varies with location; sessions use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with her?

Select the See online therapy options button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule a first session.

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