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James Engen

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James Engen, LMFT

Minnesota

LMFT - Anger and Relationship Concerns

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Key details

  • CredentialsLMFT
  • LicenseLMFT, Minnesota / 2099
  • NPI1154061679
  • Experience11 years
  • LanguagesEnglish
  • LocationMinnesota

About

  • Anger issues
  • Relationship stress
  • Narrative therapy

About James

James Engen is a Minnesota-credentialed Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) with 11 years of clinical experience. He works with people facing anger alongside concerns like relationship stress, trauma and abuse, anxiety, depression, grief, addictions, parenting strain, career difficulties, and issues with self-esteem.

James describes problems as obstacles to the life someone wants, not as a fixed identity. He uses a mix of narrative, psychodynamic, client-centered, existential, and hypnotherapy ideas and talks with each person about which methods to try. Sessions focus on identifying patterns, clarifying goals, and testing new ways of responding to difficult feelings.

He draws on a varied background outside therapy, including hands-on mechanical work and administrative roles in education. That experience shapes a practical approach in sessions - plain language, concrete steps, and attention to everyday pressures like work and caregiving.

People come to him for things that build up over time - resentment, chronic stress, trouble with intimacy, or recurring worry. He also supports people working through loss, major life changes, chronic illness stress, and co-occurring substance concerns.

In early meetings James focuses on what matters most now and what a realistic next step looks like. He invites clients to experiment with new behaviors between sessions and reviews what helped and what did not. The emphasis is on usable tools and clearer perspective rather than labels.

How sessions work

Therapeutic approaches and remote sessions

James often draws on client-centered therapy, which emphasizes listening and working from the client's priorities to set goals and try new behaviors. It helps with stress, relationship conflicts, and anger by focusing on what the client wants to change. Narrative therapy is another strand he uses; it looks at the stories people tell about themselves and separates problems from identity so someone can experiment with different ways of living. Psychodynamic ideas are used to look for recurring patterns from past relationships that affect current reactions and feelings.

Finding the right blend of approaches is part of the work. James discusses options together and adjusts methods to match the client's goals and preferences. This collaborative stance helps clients test what feels helpful and drop what does not.

The biography does not list specific session formats, so confirm current online options before booking. In general, remote sessions can make it easier to fit therapy into a busy week, shorten travel time, and allow a quicker check-in on days when only a brief meeting is feasible. Therapists and licensed professionals can also use remote work to focus on skill practice between meetings, track changes over time, and coordinate pacing to suit someone juggling work, caregiving, or health demands.

Areas of focus

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Family conflictsTrauma and abuseGriefIntimacy-related issuesSelf esteem

Also works with

Stress, AnxietyAddictionsRelationship issuesEating disordersParenting issuesAnger managementCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderDepressionCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAttachment issuesAvoidant personalityBody imageCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCo-morbidityCodependencyControl issuesDependent personalityDissociationDivorce and separationDrug and alcohol addictionEmptinessFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHoardingInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesMood disordersObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyExistential TherapyHypnotherapyNarrative TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family Systems

Experience

11+ years

Listed in

Minnesota

Languages

English

Questions

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does he help with?

He works with anger along with relationship problems, trauma and abuse, grief, anxiety, depression, addictions, parenting strain, and career stress.

What is his therapeutic style?

He uses a mix of client-centered, narrative, psychodynamic, existential, and hypnotherapy approaches and discusses with each person which methods to try.

How much clinical experience does he have?

He has 11 years of clinical experience working as a licensed marriage and family therapist.

Where is he licensed and located?

He is a Minnesota LMFT and practices in Minnesota.

Which languages are supported?

Sessions are offered in English and international clients are not currently accepted.

What session formats are offered?

The original biography does not list specific session formats; please confirm current session options before booking.

How are sessions priced?

Cost varies with location and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with him?

Select the See online therapy options button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule a first session.

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