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Hayley Wilcock

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Hayley Wilcock, BACP

United Kingdom

BACP counsellor - anger and trauma support

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Key details

  • CredentialsBACP
  • RegistrationBACP, United Kingdom / 404903
  • Experience5 years
  • LanguagesEnglish
  • LocationUnited Kingdom

About

  • Person-centred approach
  • Neurodiversity aware
  • Practical coping tools

About Hayley

Hayley Wilcock is a BACP-registered counsellor practising in the United Kingdom with five years' professional experience. She works with adults on common and complex problems such as stress, anxiety, relationship strain, grief, trauma and abuse, and anger. Hayley also supports people with neurodiversity and related challenges including ADHD and autism. Sessions are presented in a straightforward, down-to-earth way that encourages honest conversation.

Hayley describes herself as an integrative counsellor with a person-centred core. This means she mixes approaches to suit the person in front of her rather than following a single method. In practical terms that looks like talking through recent problems, looking at how past experiences shape current reactions, and learning small tools to manage strong feelings such as anger or overwhelm.

She draws on attachment-based ideas to understand relationship patterns and on cognitive behavioural tools to spot unhelpful thinking and behaviour. Mindfulness and somatic methods are used where noticing the body and present-moment experience helps reduce tension. Psychodynamic thinking is available when clients want to look deeper at early influences on current life.

Hayley says her lived experience of ADHD informs her work with neurodiverse clients. She offers clear psychoeducation, practical coping strategies, and help with organisation and self-regulation. People who prefer plain language and direct feedback tend to find this approach useful.

To begin, users follow the site's process to match and schedule a first session. Hayley works in English and sees people in the United Kingdom. If you want to discuss anger, stress, or related difficulties, she focuses on practical steps alongside reflective exploration.

How sessions work

Working online with practical therapeutic approaches

Hayley commonly draws on attachment-based ideas to look at how early relationship patterns still affect current reactions to stress and anger. Attachment-based work helps people see repeating interaction habits and learn different ways of relating when strong feelings arise.

She also uses Cognitive Behavioural Therapy, which looks at thinking and behaviour in the present. CBT breaks problems into manageable steps and offers concrete tools for changing unhelpful patterns, useful for anxiety, low mood and anger management.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. Hayley will treat your needs, goals and preferences as part of a collaborative process and help decide which methods to try first. That might mean a short skills focus or a deeper look at past experiences depending on what you want to achieve.

The original biography does not list specific session formats, so confirm the available online options before booking. Many people find online sessions helpful for fitting counselling around work, reducing travel time and keeping appointments in a tighter schedule. Others prefer a shorter check-in when schedules are busy. Discuss format and timing during the initial match so sessions fit into everyday life without guessing.

Areas of focus

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTFamily conflictsGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigue

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBlended family issuesBody imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHospice and end-of-life counselingImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMidlife crisisMood disordersNarcissismPanic disorder and panic attacksPersonality disordersPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issues

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Mindfulness TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySomatic TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

5+ years

Listed in

United Kingdom

Languages

English

Questions

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems does she help with?

She helps with stress, anxiety, depression, relationship issues, trauma, grief, anger, ADHD and many related concerns.

What is her therapeutic style?

She is an integrative counsellor with a person-centred core, using practical talk, reflection, and skills from different therapies.

How much experience does she have?

She has five years of professional counselling experience working with adults in the United Kingdom.

What credential does she hold and where is she based?

She is registered with the BACP and practises in the United Kingdom.

Does she offer sessions in other languages or to international clients?

Sessions are offered in English and she does not accept international clients.

What session formats are offered?

The original biography does not specify session formats, so please confirm current session options before booking.

How much do sessions cost?

Cost varies with location and sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I start working with her?

Select the See online therapy options button, complete the short matching questionnaire, and schedule a first session.

Details come from information the counsellor supplied to BetterHelp. A registration can be checked with the body that issued it.

Online talk therapy is not emergency care. If anyone is unsafe, use the crisis numbers.

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