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Erin Spensley

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Erin Spensley, LPC

Wisconsin

Licensed counselor - Anger and relationships

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Key details

  • CredentialsLPC
  • LicenseLPC, Wisconsin / 11942 - 125
  • NPI1184440711
  • Experience6 years
  • LanguagesEnglish
  • LocationWisconsin

About

  • CBT tools
  • Attachment work
  • DBT skills

About Erin

Erin Spensley is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) practicing in Wisconsin with six years of clinical experience. She works with adults facing stress, anxiety, depression, relationship problems, anger, and other life changes. Erin also supports people dealing with trauma, grief, addictions, ADHD, and concerns related to identity and intimacy.

Her sessions aim to be collaborative and straightforward. She uses a mix of practical therapy methods to help people identify patterns, adjust reactions, and build everyday coping skills. Conversations focus on what is getting in the way now and concrete steps to change it.

Erin often draws on attachment-based ideas to look at how past relationships affect present behavior. She also uses client-centered techniques to keep the work grounded in each person's goals. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) tools are used for emotion regulation and behavioral change.

She has particular experience working with LGBTQ+ concerns, parenting stress, career transitions, and compassion fatigue. Other areas she addresses include body image, commitment and control issues, communication problems, and sexual expression including BDSM and kink topics.

Sessions tend to be practical and focused on skills. Erin encourages clear goals and regular check-ins to measure progress. People who want direct, skills-based work on anger and relationship interactions often seek her approach.

How sessions work

How Erin’s approaches translate to online work

Erin commonly uses Attachment-Based Therapy to explore how early and close relationships shape current reactions. This helps when anger or mistrust shows up in relationships and daily interactions.

She applies Client-Centered Therapy to keep sessions focused on each person’s goals and perspective. That approach emphasizes listening and adjusting the pace of work to what the client wants to address.

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) tools are used to teach concrete skills for managing strong emotions and changing unhelpful thoughts and behaviors. These tools are practical for stress, anxiety, anger, and coping with life transitions.

Finding the right approach is part of the process. Erin works collaboratively to pick methods that match a person’s goals, challenges, and preferences. She checks in and refines the plan as the work moves forward.

Confirm the available session formats before booking, since the profile does not list specific options. Online sessions can make it easier to fit therapy into a busy week, reduce travel time, and allow focused check-ins when a shorter meeting is needed. These practical benefits help people sustain steady work on anger, relationships, and emotional regulation.

Areas of focus

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTFamily conflictsIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAging and geriatric issuesAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesBody imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesFamily problemsGuilt and shameImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMood disordersNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPost-traumatic stressPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaSomatizationTrichotillomaniaWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Gottman MethodJungian TherapyMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapySomatic TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapySystemic Therapy

Experience

6+ years

Listed in

Wisconsin

Languages

English

Questions

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does she help with?

She helps with stress, anxiety, depression, anger, relationship issues, trauma, grief, addictions, ADHD, and related concerns listed in her profile.

What is her approach in sessions?

She uses a collaborative, practical style drawing on attachment-based work, client-centered methods, CBT and DBT skills to address emotions and behaviors.

How much clinical experience does she have?

She has six years of experience working as a Licensed Professional Counselor in Wisconsin.

What credential does she hold and where does she practice?

She is an LPC - Licensed Professional Counselor - practicing in Wisconsin.

Which languages and regions does she support?

Sessions are offered in English and she does not accept international clients at this time.

What session formats are available?

Please confirm current session options before booking, as specific formats are not listed in the profile.

How are sessions priced?

Cost varies by location and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with her?

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