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Debra Hayman

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Debra Hayman, BACP

United Kingdom

BACP counsellor - relationships and emotion work

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Key details

  • CredentialsBACP
  • RegistrationBACP, United Kingdom / 375321
  • Experience8 years
  • LanguagesEnglish
  • LocationUnited Kingdom

About

  • Relationship issues
  • Anger and stress
  • CBT and mindfulness

About Debra

Debra Hayman is a BACP counsellor practising in the United Kingdom with eight years of professional experience. She works with people who are coping with stress, anxiety, depression, addictions and relationship difficulties, and she lists anger among the concerns she addresses. Sessions focus on understanding feelings and improving how people respond to others.

Her background includes seven years working with drug and alcohol misuse alongside related issues. That work involved supporting people dealing with domestic abuse, bullying, low self-esteem, food and eating concerns, and trauma. She draws on that experience when helping clients untangle patterns that keep causing pain or conflict.

In practice she uses a mix of approaches chosen for the person in the room. Client-Centred Therapy shapes how she listens and reflects what matters to the client. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy helps identify and shift unhelpful thinking and behaviour. Emotionally-Focused Therapy and Mindfulness approaches are brought in to address intense feelings and to build present-moment awareness.

Debra explains things plainly and helps people talk through what is happening in their lives. She aims to make sessions practical - looking at what people do, how they feel, and what small changes might ease pressure at home or at work. Her experience covers grief, intimacy issues, parenting strains, career stress and long-term mood conditions such as bipolar and depression.

For someone worried about anger or ongoing frustration, she works to clarify triggers and reactions, then explores healthier ways to respond. She accepts international clients and conducts work in English. To begin, readers are asked to use the site flow to match and schedule an initial appointment.

How sessions work

How her approaches translate to online work

Client-Centred Therapy focuses on attentive listening and reflecting back what matters to the client. Online sessions can replicate this by keeping conversation grounded in the client’s concerns and priorities, and by using gentle reflection to clarify feelings and goals.

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) looks at how thoughts, feelings and behaviours connect. When delivered online CBT can include practical exercises, thought records and homework that people use between sessions to change patterns that feed anger or anxiety.

Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT) helps people identify and make sense of strong emotions in relationships. Online sessions can be used to practise noticing emotional reactions and trying different ways of responding in real time.

Choosing the right approach is part of the work. The therapist will discuss your goals, past experience and preferences, and together you will decide which combination of methods to try. That collaborative process can be adjusted as you learn what helps most.

Session formats are not specified in the biography, so confirm current options before booking. Online work can make it easier to fit therapy around work or family commitments, reduce travel time, and support shorter check-ins when schedules need them. Many people find the flexibility helps them keep momentum and apply new skills between sessions.

Areas of focus

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Also works with

Family conflictsIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderDepressionCoping with life changesCompassion fatigue

Additional focus areas

Aging and geriatric issuesAttachment issuesBlended family issuesBody imageCaregiver issues and stressCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily problemsForgivenessGuilt and shameInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMood disordersNarcissismPanic disorder and panic attacksPersonality disordersPhobiasPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Self-loveSexual assault and abuseSocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Existential TherapyMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingSolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

8+ years

Listed in

United Kingdom

Languages

English

Questions

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of issues does she help with?

She helps with stress, anxiety, addictions, relationships, trauma, grief and anger among other concerns such as self-esteem and eating issues.

What is her therapeutic style like?

She uses a person-focused style and combines Client-Centred listening with practical techniques from CBT, EFT and mindfulness.

How much experience does she have?

She has eight years of professional experience, including seven years working with drug and alcohol misuse and related issues.

What credential and region does she practise in?

She is registered with BACP and works in the United Kingdom.

Which languages are sessions offered in?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can people outside the UK work with her?

She accepts international clients; check practical details before booking.

What do sessions cost?

Cost varies with location and sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I start a first session?

Use the See online therapy options button, complete the short matching questionnaire, and schedule a first session.

Details come from information the counsellor supplied to BetterHelp. A registration can be checked with the body that issued it.

Online talk therapy is not emergency care. If anyone is unsafe, use the crisis numbers.

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