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Colette Safhill

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Colette Safhill, BACP

United Kingdom

BACP psychotherapist - stress and relationships

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Key details

  • CredentialsBACP
  • RegistrationBACP, United Kingdom / 391617
  • Experience20 years
  • LanguagesEnglish
  • LocationUnited Kingdom

About

  • Person centred approach
  • CBT and DBT elements
  • EMDR for trauma

About Colette

Colette Safhill is a BACP psychotherapist with 20 years of experience. She trained at the University of Essex and works from the United Kingdom. Colette focuses on everyday struggles such as stress, anxiety, depression and anger, and also supports people coping with relationships, addiction and trauma.

She works in a person-centred way, listening to what each person brings and responding without judgement. That means sessions are led by the client's concerns and pace, with practical ideas offered when useful. Colette also uses approaches including cognitive behavioural work, dialectical behaviour strategies and EMDR where appropriate.

Her background includes post-qualifying training in relationship therapy, adoption and foster care issues, eating disorders and domestic abuse. She has experience supporting people with grief, intimacy problems, body image and long-term health conditions. Colette notes work with attachment, abandonment and communication problems among her additional focus areas.

Sessions may include skills practice, talking through recent situations, and looking at patterns that keep problems repeating. For people dealing with anger this can mean learning short techniques to reduce reactivity and then addressing the beliefs and relationship patterns that feed resentment.

Colette offers work in English and accepts international clients. She is insured and listed with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP). To begin, clients follow the site's steps to match and book a first session.

How sessions work

How Colette uses therapeutic approaches online

Colette combines person-centred work with specific techniques from cognitive behavioural therapy and EMDR. Client-Centred Therapy focuses on understanding what matters to the client and following their pace, which helps when anger feels overwhelming. Cognitive Behavioural Therapy looks at the links between thoughts, feelings and actions and offers practical exercises to reduce reactive behaviour and unhelpful thinking. EMDR is used for processing traumatic memories that continue to drive strong emotional responses.

Choosing the right approach is part of the work together. Colette will discuss goals, preferences and the problems a client brings, and then suggest which methods to try first. This is a collaborative process and plans can change as progress is made.

The biography states she is qualified to work online and by phone, so confirm the current session options before booking. Online work can make it easier to fit sessions around work or family life, allow quicker check-ins by phone, and let people use techniques at home between meetings. Registered or accredited professionals often find online work supports consistency without requiring travel, but confirm format and scheduling details before your first appointment.

Areas of focus

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyAddictionsRelationship issuesFamily conflictsDepression

Also works with

LGBTTrauma and abuseGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesCoping with life changesCoaching

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAttachment issuesBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBody imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCodependencyCommunication problemsControl issuesDependent personalityDissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHoardingImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMood disordersNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksPhobiasPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR)Gottman MethodMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingSolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

20+ years

Listed in

United Kingdom

Languages

English

Questions

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems does she help with?

Colette works with stress, anxiety, depression and anger along with relationship and trauma-related concerns.

What is her therapeutic style?

She uses a person-centred way of working, combined with CBT and DBT skills and EMDR when appropriate.

How much experience does she have?

Colette has 20 years of clinical experience since qualifying at the University of Essex.

What credential does she hold and where is she based?

She is BACP accredited and practises from the United Kingdom.

Which languages are sessions offered in?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can people from other countries work with her?

She accepts international clients.

How are fees and payment handled?

Cost varies by location; sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I start a first session?

Select the See online therapy options button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule a first session.

Details come from information the counsellor supplied to BetterHelp. A registration can be checked with the body that issued it.

Online talk therapy is not emergency care. If anyone is unsafe, use the crisis numbers.

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