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Barbara Mey

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Barbara Mey, LMHC

Rhode Island

Licensed Mental Health Counselor - Anger and Relationships

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Key details

  • CredentialsLMHC
  • LicenseLMHC, Rhode Island / MHC00328
  • NPI1437282902
  • Experience20 years
  • LanguagesEnglish
  • LocationRhode Island

About

  • CBT techniques
  • Mindfulness practice
  • Short term planning

About Barbara

Barbara Mey is a Rhode Island Licensed Mental Health Counselor (LMHC) with 20 years of clinical experience. She works with adults who are dealing with stress, anxiety, depression, relationship and family problems, grief, addiction, parenting strains, and anger. Sessions focus on practical skills and clearer thinking to manage the issues that feel most immediate in everyday life.

She uses straightforward cognitive behavioral techniques alongside mindfulness and Acceptance and Commitment Therapy tools. That means helping people notice unhelpful thinking, try simple behavior experiments, and practice present-moment awareness. Motivational interviewing and solution-focused ideas show up in shorter-term planning and when people want help setting realistic next steps.

Barbara trained at Providence College for her master’s degree and completed advanced graduate work at Salve Regina University. She spent nearly a decade in community mental health and later worked in a substance abuse clinic running groups and individual sessions. That background shapes how she balances symptom work with practical life problems.

In sessions she aims to be direct and steady. Conversations move between current problems, coping skills, and workable changes for daily life. She often helps people untangle codependency, manage impulsivity, address caregiver stress, or adjust to major life transitions.

People choosing her typically want a clear plan and tools they can use outside sessions. Her approach mixes skill practice, short-term problem solving, and talking through patterns that keep returning. Sessions are conducted in English and based in Rhode Island.

How sessions work

How her approaches translate to online work

Barbara uses Cognitive Behavioral Therapy to help people spot unhelpful thoughts and test new behaviors. CBT in practice often looks like tracking moods, trying short experiments, and reviewing what worked between sessions. Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) helps people notice urges and values-based choices rather than trying to push feelings away, which can be useful for anger, addiction, or chronic stress.

Mindfulness therapy appears as simple attention exercises and brief grounding practices designed to reduce reactivity. These tools are meant to be practiced between sessions so they fit into daily routines and moments when tension tends to rise. The clinician will discuss which combination of approaches makes the most sense for a person’s goals and problem areas in a collaborative way.

Session formats are not specified in the biography, so confirm current options before booking. Many people find online work helps fit therapy into busy schedules, allows shorter check-ins when needed, and makes it easier to continue care across life changes. The therapist will work with each person to match technique and timing to their circumstances and goals.

Areas of focus

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesFamily conflictsSelf esteemDepression

Also works with

AddictionsTrauma and abuseGriefEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

Aging and geriatric issuesAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeBlended family issuesCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCodependencyCommunication problemsDivorce and separationDrug and alcohol addictionFamily problemsGuilt and shameHospice and end-of-life counselingImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMidlife crisisMood disordersObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksPhobiasSeasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-loveSocial anxiety and phobiaTraumatic brain injuryWomen's issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Mindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingSolution-Focused Therapy

Experience

20+ years

Listed in

Rhode Island

Languages

English

Questions

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of issues does she help with?

She works with stress, anxiety, depression, relationship and family problems, grief, addiction, parenting challenges, anger, and related issues such as codependency and caregiver stress.

What is her therapeutic style like?

Her style is practical and direct, using cognitive behavioral work, mindfulness, and ACT to build coping skills and clearer thinking for everyday situations.

How much clinical experience does she have?

She has 20 years of experience, including almost ten years in community mental health and work in a substance abuse clinic.

What credentials and location are listed?

She is a Rhode Island Licensed Mental Health Counselor (RI LMHC) and practices from Rhode Island.

Which languages are supported in sessions?

Sessions are offered in English.

Are international clients accepted?

International clients are not accepted at this time.

How are sessions scheduled and paid for?

Cost varies with location; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with her?

Select the See online therapy options button, complete the short matching questionnaire, and schedule a first session.

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Online talk therapy is not emergency care. If anyone is unsafe, use the crisis numbers.

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