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Valentina Mengarelli

Counsellor profile

Valentina Mengarelli, BACP

United Kingdom

BACP counsellor - Anger and stress support

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Key details

  • CredentialsBACP
  • RegistrationBACP, United Kingdom / 400017
  • Experience5 years
  • LanguagesEnglish, Spanish, Italian
  • LocationUnited Kingdom

About

  • Client-Centred Therapy
  • Mindfulness practice
  • English Spanish Italian

About Valentina

Valentina Mengarelli is a BACP-registered counsellor in the United Kingdom with five years of professional experience. She works with people who struggle with stress, anxiety, sleep problems, low self-esteem and depression. Valentina also supports those facing life changes, relationship tensions, parenting strains and anger-related concerns.

Her approach is grounded in Client-Centred Therapy. That means conversations focus on the person's concerns and experiences, rather than a therapist-led agenda. She also uses Mindfulness Therapy to help people notice thoughts and feelings without getting swept away by them.

Sessions are conversational and practical. Valentina aims to help people identify patterns that fuel stress or anger, and to try out different ways of responding. She talks through coping strategies and small behaviour changes that can reduce repeated flare-ups and rumination.

She works in English, Spanish and Italian, which can be useful when language affects how someone describes their feelings. Valentina accepts international clients and adapts the pace and tone of sessions to suit each person.

Her background includes five years working directly with the issues listed above and additional focus on concerns such as attachment, codependency, caregiver stress, grief from separation or divorce, and domestic violence. People who want clear, steady guidance on managing temper, stress or relationship strain may find this approach helpful.

How sessions work

Therapeutic approaches and how online sessions fit

Client-Centred Therapy is about making the conversation follow the person's needs. The counsellor listens and reflects what is said so people can clarify their own goals and see choices more clearly. This approach helps when someone feels stuck by repeated reactions or low mood.

Mindfulness Therapy teaches simple ways to notice thoughts, bodily sensations and emotions without acting on them straight away. Practising this can reduce automatic responses to stress and anger and make calmer choices more available.

Finding the right mix of approaches is part of the work. Valentina will discuss what feels most helpful and adapt methods to a person's goals and preferences. That means the plan can change as sessions progress and new priorities emerge.

Confirm the exact session formats before booking, since the biography does not list them explicitly. Online sessions can make it easier to fit appointments into a busy week, avoid travel time and keep checks short on a work break. They also allow people to continue counselling if they have moved or live overseas. Registered or accredited professionals use a range of methods to support people remotely, and practical arrangements are set up when scheduling the first session.

Areas of focus

Areas of expertise

Also works with

AddictionsRelationship issuesFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseIntimacy-related issuesParenting issuesAnger managementCareer difficulties

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAging and geriatric issuesAttachment issuesAvoidant personalityBlended family issuesBody imageCaregiver issues and stressCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDependent personalityDissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsGuilt and shameImpulsivityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationSelf-harmSelf-loveSocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyMindfulness Therapy

Experience

5+ years

Listed in

United Kingdom

Languages

English, Spanish, Italian

Questions

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems does she help with?

She works with stress, anxiety, sleep difficulties, low self-esteem and depression, plus relationship, parenting and anger-related concerns.

How would she approach anger in sessions?

She uses a client-centred style to focus on the person's experience and conversations about triggers. Mindfulness techniques may be offered to reduce reactivity.

How much experience does she have?

She has five years of professional experience working with the issues listed in her profile.

What credential does she hold and where is she based?

She is registered with the BACP and practises from the United Kingdom.

Can sessions be in languages other than English?

Yes. Sessions are offered in English, Spanish and Italian.

Does she work with international clients?

Yes, she accepts international clients.

How are sessions paid for?

Costs vary with location and sessions use a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I get started with a first session?

Select the See online therapy options button, complete the short matching questionnaire, and schedule a first session.

Details come from information the counsellor supplied to BetterHelp. A registration can be checked with the body that issued it.

Online talk therapy is not emergency care. If anyone is unsafe, use the crisis numbers.

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