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Tuesday Benfield

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Tuesday Benfield, BACP

United Kingdom

BACP counsellor - anger and relationship concerns

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Key details

  • CredentialsBACP
  • RegistrationBACP, United Kingdom / 391306
  • Experience4 years
  • LanguagesEnglish
  • LocationUnited Kingdom

About

  • CBT techniques
  • Person-centred focus
  • Trauma experience

About Tuesday

Tuesday Benfield is a BACP counsellor based in the United Kingdom with four years' counselling experience. She works with adults who are coping with stress, anxiety, trauma and abuse, relationship and intimacy concerns, self-esteem issues, ADHD, addictions, grief, sleep and eating difficulties, parenting strain, career pressures and anger.

She describes herself as down-to-earth and open-minded. She draws on a range of life and work experience to relate to different situations people bring to counselling. That background includes work in bereavement, domestic violence support, street outreach, and services for sexual assault and abuse.

Her training includes a BACP-accredited diploma in integrative therapeutic counselling and experience delivering Cognitive Behavioural Therapy within NHS therapeutic services. She has also carried out family liaison and emotional support work for many years and continues professional development through workshops and seminars.

In sessions she uses an integrative approach. That means she chooses methods to suit the person in front of her. She often uses person-centred ideas to focus on the counselling relationship and CBT techniques to address current thoughts, feelings and behaviours.

Tuesday offers both shorter and longer-term work. She aims to help people understand what might be driving their reactions and to practice practical coping strategies. The focus is on clearer thinking, different responses to difficult situations, and developing ways of managing feelings such as anger or overwhelm.

To begin, clients complete a short matching questionnaire and then schedule a first session. International clients can be accepted and sessions are delivered in English.

How sessions work

How therapeutic approaches translate to online counselling

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) helps people notice unhelpful thoughts and decide what matters most to them, then take small steps aligned with those values. It can be useful for anxiety, low mood and difficulties that keep coming back. Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) focuses on current thoughts, feelings and behaviours and offers practical strategies to change patterns that feed anger or worry. It suits short-term goals and skills practice. Attachment-Based Therapy looks at how early relationships influence present reactions and can help when relationship patterns or trust issues are causing repeated conflict.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. The therapist will discuss goals, preferences and what has or hasn’t helped before. Together they decide which methods to try and adapt as the work progresses, so the approach reflects the client's experience and aims.

Confirm current session formats when booking, as specific online options are not listed here. Online sessions can make it easier to fit counselling into busy days, allow quieter check-ins that do not need video, or let someone keep a short appointment during a work break. Registered or accredited professionals, including counsellors, commonly use these flexible arrangements to help people practise new responses and coping strategies in everyday life.

Areas of focus

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Also works with

AddictionsRelationship issuesFamily conflictsGriefEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementCareer difficultiesDepressionCoping with life changesCompassion fatigue

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAttachment issuesBody imageCaregiver issues and stressCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEmptinessFamily problemsForgivenessGuilt and shameHoardingImpulsivityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPhobiasPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Mindfulness TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapySomatic TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

4+ years

Listed in

United Kingdom

Languages

English

Questions

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems does she help with?

She works with stress, anxiety, trauma and abuse, relationship and intimacy concerns, self-esteem, ADHD, addictions, grief, sleep and eating issues, parenting strain, anger and related life changes.

What is her therapeutic style?

She uses an integrative style, combining person-centred listening with Cognitive Behavioural Therapy and other approaches to suit the person's needs.

How much experience does she have?

She has four years of counselling experience plus prior work in NHS therapeutic services and many years in family liaison and emotional support roles.

What credential does she hold and where is she based?

She holds a BACP-accredited diploma and is based in the United Kingdom.

Does she work in languages other than English?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can people outside the UK work with her?

She accepts international clients; check the session details when booking to confirm options for your location.

How are sessions organised and paid for?

Costs vary by location and sessions use a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I start a first session?

Select the See online therapy options button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule your first session.

Details come from information the counsellor supplied to BetterHelp. A registration can be checked with the body that issued it.

Online talk therapy is not emergency care. If anyone is unsafe, use the crisis numbers.

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