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Toni Kooy

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Toni Kooy, LPC

Colorado

Licensed Professional Counselor - Anger and Trauma

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Key details

  • CredentialsLPC
  • LicenseLPC, Colorado / LPC.0005555
  • NPI1558626804
  • Experience20 years
  • LanguagesEnglish
  • LocationColorado

About

  • DBT skills
  • CBT techniques
  • Trauma-informed care

About Toni

Toni Kooy is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) in Colorado with 20 years of experience. She works with adults on concerns such as stress, anxiety, trauma and abuse, depression, addictions, anger, relationship and intimacy-related issues, grief, and career challenges. Sessions are presented in plain language with practical strategies and goal-focused planning.

Toni uses straightforward listening to help people identify what drives their distress. She combines short-term and longer-term goals so clients can see progress and build skills that matter day to day. She draws on approaches like Dialectical Behavior Therapy to strengthen emotion regulation and decision making, and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy to spot and change unhelpful thinking patterns.

Her background includes work across rural and urban community mental health centers and many years supporting people with mood problems and trauma symptoms. She has training in trauma work that included EMDR and has helped people dealing with grief and post-traumatic stress. Toni’s clinical work is informed by a long history in substance abuse and mental health settings beginning in 2004.

Before becoming a counselor she held varied jobs including musician, construction worker, nanny, home-maker, and assembly worker. Those roles shape a practical, non-judgmental perspective in sessions and a focus on real-life solutions. She also holds a Bachelor’s degree in Psychology and a Master’s degree in Counseling from the University of Colorado.

Toni frames therapy as a collaborative process that examines strengths and skills people already have. She emphasizes emotion regulation, problem solving, and making choices that lead toward better daily functioning rather than abstract theory.

How sessions work

How her approaches translate to online work

Toni commonly uses Dialectical Behavior Therapy and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy in her practice. DBT focuses on building concrete skills for emotion regulation, distress tolerance, and better decision making. That helps when anger feels overwhelming or when emotions disrupt relationships. CBT looks at thoughts, behaviors, and feelings and helps people test and replace patterns that fuel frustration or resentment.

She also has experience with trauma-focused work and EMDR training; trauma approaches aim to reduce intrusive symptoms and help people process painful events. Choosing the right approach is a collaborative process. The therapist and client discuss goals, try techniques, and adjust the plan based on what is helpful and practical.

If you prefer to meet remotely, confirm the session formats before booking since the biography does not list specific online options. Many people find that remote sessions fit into workdays more easily, allow shorter check-ins when schedules are tight, and reduce travel time. Online work can make it simpler to practice new skills between sessions and to bring real-life situations into conversations without promising any particular format.

Areas of focus

Areas of expertise

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTRelationship issuesGriefIntimacy-related issuesParenting issuesAnger managementCareer difficultiesBipolar disorder

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR)Motivational InterviewingSolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family Systems

Experience

20+ years

Listed in

Colorado

Languages

English

Questions

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of anger issues does she address?

She supports people dealing with snapping at loved ones, building resentment, and trouble managing strong emotions. Anger appears alongside stress, relationship strain, and past trauma in her practice.

How would she approach anger in sessions?

She uses goal-focused work and skills practice. Methods include emotion regulation from DBT and cognitive techniques to change unhelpful thinking patterns.

How much experience does she bring?

She has worked in substance abuse and mental health settings since 2004, giving her about 20 years of clinical experience with mood, trauma, and addictions.

What are her credentials and where is she based?

She is a Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, in Colorado.

Does she offer sessions in other languages or to international clients?

Sessions are offered in English. She is not currently accepting international clients.

What session formats are available?

The original biography does not list specific session formats; please confirm current session options before booking.

How does cost and payment work?

Cost varies with location and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with her?

Use the See online therapy options button, complete the short matching questionnaire, and schedule a first session.

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