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Tom Lewis

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Tom Lewis, LPC

Missouri

Licensed Professional Counselor - Anger and Relationships

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Key details

  • CredentialsLPC
  • LicenseLPC, Missouri / 002023
  • NPI1023243201
  • Experience30 years
  • LanguagesEnglish
  • LocationMissouri

About

  • ACT and CBT methods
  • Communication problems
  • Stress and coping

About Tom

Tom Lewis is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) practicing in Missouri with 30 years of clinical experience. He works with adults on concerns such as anxiety, depression, stress, relationship and intimacy issues, parenting strain, and anger. He also addresses career problems, addiction, grief, trauma and a range of personality and family origin concerns.

He keeps sessions straightforward and conversational. He spends time learning how a person thinks and reacts, and looks for strengths that can be used to handle problems. That means talking through specific situations, testing different ways to respond, and noticing what helps calm intense moments.

Tom draws on several evidence-based approaches. He uses Acceptance and Commitment Therapy to clarify values and get moving toward meaningful action. He uses Cognitive Behavioral Therapy to spot unhelpful thinking and shift behavior. He also brings Client-Centered and Emotionally-Focused ideas when exploring relationships and emotional patterns.

Over three decades he has helped people manage life changes, work stress, caregiving burdens, and the fallout of relationship breakdowns. He pays attention to interaction patterns that keep problems going, like avoidance or control struggles, and works with clients to try alternatives.

Sessions are practical and goal-oriented without being rushed. He encourages steady steps - small changes that reduce reactivity and improve communication. For someone worried about snapping at loved ones, feeling resentful, or getting stuck in shame or guilt, Tom helps map clearer ways forward.

How sessions work

How his approaches are used in online sessions

Tom uses Acceptance and Commitment Therapy to help people clarify what matters and take practical steps toward those values. ACT is useful when anger or avoidance keeps someone from acting on goals and relationships. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy is used to identify unhelpful thoughts and change behaviors that fuel stress and reactivity; it often includes experiments between sessions to test new ways of responding.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. Tom treats approach selection as collaborative. He will discuss options based on your goals, what has or hasn’t worked before, and how you prefer to engage in sessions. That way the plan adjusts as you learn what helps most.

The biography does not list specific session formats, so confirm current online options before booking. Many people find online sessions easier to fit into busy weeks, allow shorter check-ins during the workday, or reduce travel time. If you want straightforward, practical work on anger, relationships, or stress, online sessions can let you keep momentum while balancing other commitments.

Areas of focus

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesIntimacy-related issuesSelf esteemCareer difficulties

Also works with

AddictionsFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseGriefParenting issuesAnger managementBipolar disorderDepressionCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

Avoidant personalityCaregiver issues and stressCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDependent personalityDivorce and separationEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMulticultural concernsNarcissismPersonality disordersProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Self-loveSex addictionSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaSomatizationWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Existential TherapyMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapySolution-Focused Therapy

Experience

30+ years

Listed in

Missouri

Languages

English

Questions

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems does he work with?

He works with adults on stress, anxiety, depression, relationship and intimacy issues, anger, grief, addiction, parenting strain, and related concerns.

What is his therapy style like?

He uses a conversational, practical approach that looks for strengths and tests new ways to respond to problems.

How much experience does he have?

He brings 30 years of counseling experience helping people with a wide range of life and relationship issues.

What are his credentials and where is he located?

He is an LPC - Licensed Professional Counselor - practicing in Missouri.

Can I work with him if I live outside the U.S.?

He does not accept international clients. Sessions are offered in English.

What session formats are offered?

Please confirm current session formats before booking, as the biography does not specify which formats are offered.

How much do sessions cost?

Cost varies with location and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I get started?

Select the See online therapy options button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule a first session.

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