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Paula De Souza

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Paula De Souza, BACP

United Kingdom

BACP registered counsellor - Anger and relationships

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Key details

  • CredentialsBACP
  • RegistrationBACP, United Kingdom / 393315
  • Experience4 years
  • LanguagesEnglish
  • LocationUnited Kingdom

About

  • Client-Centred Therapy
  • Psychodynamic Therapy
  • Stress and anxiety

About Paula

Paula De Souza is a BACP registered counsellor in the United Kingdom with four years of professional experience. She works with people facing stress, anxiety, relationship and family concerns, trauma and abuse, grief, eating issues, parenting strain, anger, self-esteem, career questions and life changes. Paula also supports clients dealing with compassion fatigue and long-term conditions such as chronic pain and cancer.

Paula describes counselling as a process that helps when life feels tangled. She invites clients to talk through thoughts, feelings and experiences and to build practical coping skills. Sessions focus on what matters most to the client and on finding clearer next steps.

Her main approach is client-centred therapy, which means the client’s priorities guide the work. She also draws on psychodynamic ideas to help understand patterns that repeat over time. Together these approaches aim to bring clearer self-understanding and more helpful ways of responding to stress and anger.

Paula frames the relationship with the client as central. She works at the client’s pace and pays attention to trust and communication as the basis for change. This style suits people who want a conversational, reflective approach and practical strategies for day-to-day challenges.

Her additional focus areas include issues such as attachment, abandonment, body image, caregiver stress, co-morbidity and communication problems. Sessions are offered in English and Paula works with people across the UK and internationally.

How sessions work

How Paula’s approaches translate to online work

Client-Centred Therapy focuses on the client’s perspective. The therapist listens closely and follows what the client brings. This approach helps when people want to be heard, sort out feelings such as anger or grief, and set practical next steps.

Psychodynamic Therapy looks at repeating patterns and how past experiences influence current reactions. It can help make sense of why certain situations trigger strong responses and reduce repeated cycles of frustration or withdrawal.

Choosing the right approach is part of the therapeutic process. Paula will work collaboratively to decide which ideas and techniques fit the client’s goals and preferences. That process can be adjusted as work progresses, with the client guiding priorities.

Confirm the available session formats before booking, as the biography does not list specific delivery methods. Online work can make it easier to fit sessions into everyday life, for example by reducing travel time, allowing shorter check-ins during a busy day, or offering an option when scheduling around work or caregiving. Registered or accredited professionals commonly find that video helps with face-to-face interaction while phone or message-based sessions can suit quieter or lower-bandwidth situations. Discussing format and practical needs is part of the first appointment so sessions can be arranged to work with daily routines and commitments.

Areas of focus

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesFamily conflictsTrauma and abuse

Also works with

LGBTGriefEating disordersParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCompassion fatigue

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAging and geriatric issuesAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeBody imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDependent personalityDivorce and separationEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsForgivenessGuilt and shameHIV / AIDSHoardingIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksPost-traumatic stressSelf-harmSelf-loveSexual assault and abuseSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyPsychodynamic Therapy

Experience

4+ years

Listed in

United Kingdom

Languages

English

Questions

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does she help with?

She works with stress, anxiety, relationship and family concerns, trauma and abuse, grief, eating issues, parenting strain, anger, self-esteem, career questions and coping with life changes.

What is her therapeutic style like?

Paula uses a client-centred style and integrates psychodynamic ideas. Sessions are led by the client’s priorities and explore patterns behind recurring problems.

How much clinical experience does she have?

She has four years of professional experience working as a counsellor in the UK.

What credential does she hold and where is she based?

She is BACP registered and practices in the United Kingdom.

Can people who don’t live in the UK work with her?

Sessions are offered to international clients as well as those in the UK. Conversations are conducted in English.

What session formats are used?

Please confirm current session options before booking as the biography does not specify which formats are offered.

How are sessions paid for?

Costs vary with location and sessions use a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I start working with her?

Select the See online therapy options button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule your first session.

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Online talk therapy is not emergency care. If anyone is unsafe, use the crisis numbers.

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