Counsellor profile
Jay Cook, NCPS
United Kingdom
Counsellor - Anger and Relationships
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- CredentialsNCPS
- RegistrationNCPS, United Kingdom / NCS23-02658
- Experience5 years
- LanguagesEnglish
- LocationUnited Kingdom
About
- Anger management skills
- CBT and ACT methods
- Relationship patterns
About Jay
Jay Cook is a counsellor registered with NCPS with five years of practice in the United Kingdom. He works with adults who are struggling with stress, anxiety, depression, anger and relationship concerns. He also supports people facing issues linked to identity, addiction and life changes.
He uses practical talking therapies rather than jargon. Sessions focus on what feels most pressing - for example managing sudden anger, coping with simmering resentment, or handling stress at work. He draws on methods like cognitive behavioural work and acceptance-based skills to help people notice patterns and try different responses.
His style is collaborative and straightforward. He helps clients identify values and small, doable steps that reduce tension. Conversations can include looking at unhelpful thinking, practising emotion regulation skills, and building routines that ease day-to-day pressure.
Jay has worked with people from many cultural backgrounds and with international clients. That experience informs how he pays attention to how culture, identity and relationships shape emotional responses, including anger.
People come for a range of concerns linked to mood, identity, parenting pressures, career stress, and trauma. In sessions he combines techniques from attachment-focused work, dialectical behaviour ideas, and client-centred listening to help people practise different ways of relating to themselves and others.
How sessions work
Therapeutic approaches and online work
Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) helps people notice difficult thoughts and feelings without getting swept away by them, and then choose actions that match their values. It can help with recurring anger by shifting focus from fighting feelings to taking meaningful steps despite them. Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) looks at how thoughts, feelings and behaviours interact and teaches practical skills to test and change unhelpful thinking patterns that feed irritation and outbursts. Attachment-Based Therapy pays attention to how past relationships shape current reactions, helping people recognise patterns in close relationships that can trigger anger.Finding the right approach is part of the work. The therapist will collaborate with the client to decide which combination of methods fits best, based on goals, personal history and how a client prefers to work. That choice can shift as progress is made and new needs emerge.
Session formats are not specified in the biography, so confirm the available options before booking. Online work can make it easier to fit sessions into a busy life - for example a shorter check-in at lunch, avoiding travel time, or having sessions when relocating or living abroad. Registered or accredited professionals can use online sessions to share practical exercises, coach emotion regulation skills in the moment, and set up homework that fits daily routines.
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Experience
5+ years
Listed in
United Kingdom
Languages
English
Questions
Frequently asked questions
What kinds of concerns does he help with?
He works with stress, anxiety, depression, anger and relationship issues, plus related areas such as addiction and parenting pressures.
What is his approach to managing anger?
He uses practical tools from cognitive behavioural therapy and acceptance approaches to notice triggers, change responses, and experiment with new habits.
How much clinical experience does he have?
He has five years of professional experience working with adults in the UK and with international clients.
What credential does he hold and where is he based?
He is registered with NCPS and practices in the United Kingdom.
Can I work with him if I live outside the UK?
Yes, he accepts international clients. Sessions are offered in English.
Which session formats are available?
Please confirm current session options before booking, as formats are not specified in the biography.
How are sessions charged?
Cost varies with location and sessions use a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time.
How do I begin working with him?
Select the See online therapy options button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule your first session.
Details come from information the counsellor supplied to BetterHelp. A registration can be checked with the body that issued it.
Online talk therapy is not emergency care. If anyone is unsafe, use the crisis numbers.