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Daniela Schirmer

Counsellor profile

Daniela Schirmer, BACP

United Kingdom

BACP counsellor - relationships and trauma

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Key details

  • CredentialsBACP
  • RegistrationBACP, United Kingdom / 411923
  • Experience6 years
  • LanguagesEnglish, Portuguese
  • LocationUnited Kingdom

About

  • Attachment-based work
  • Client-centred methods
  • Cognitive tools

About Daniela

Daniela Schirmer is a BACP counsellor practising in the United Kingdom with six years of clinical experience. She helps people facing relationship strain, trauma and abuse, grief, anxiety, stress, addiction and anger. She also supports those coping with changes such as separation, career shifts or illness.

Her work draws on a mix of approaches rather than a single method. Sessions focus on the patterns that keep problems repeating - for example attachment dynamics, communication breakdowns, or habitual reactions to stress. She pays attention to interactions between people as well as what happens inside an individual.

Daniela uses elements from client-centred and attachment-based work. She brings cognitive behavioural techniques when practical tools are useful. Emotion-focused ideas are also part of her way of working when feelings and relational bonds are central to the issue.

In practice she aims for clear conversations about what is getting in the way and what people want instead. Therapy can include talking, noticing how relationships operate, and experimenting with different ways of responding. Creative approaches such as movement or art may be included when they help expression.

She has experience with intimate relationship problems, parenting pressures, blended family issues, grief, eating and sleeping struggles, and the effects of chronic illness. Language options include English and Portuguese, and international clients are not currently accepted.

To begin, clients complete an online matching questionnaire and schedule a first session. Costs vary with location and sessions use a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time.

How sessions work

Approaches in online sessions and how they help

Daniela blends attachment-based work, client-centred practice and cognitive behavioural tools in her sessions. Attachment-based work looks at how earlier relationships shape current reactions and patterns, which can help with repeated conflict or difficulty trusting others. Client-centred practice focuses on listening and exploring a person’s own priorities, useful for sorting out what matters most in strained relationships. Cognitive behavioural techniques break problems into thoughts, feelings and behaviours and offer practical steps to change unhelpful patterns.

Finding the right mix is a collaborative process. The therapist will discuss goals and preferences and adapt approaches as the work progresses. This means sessions can shift between noticing relational patterns, practising new responses, and using structured exercises when those feel helpful.

The practical benefits of online work include fitting sessions into a busy schedule and making it easier to attend without a commute. Online sessions can also allow shorter check-ins when that suits a day, or preferencing audio over video to reduce bandwidth. Because session formats here are not specified in the biography, confirm the available online options before booking so the chosen setup matches your needs.

Areas of focus

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Relationship issuesTrauma and abuseGriefIntimacy-related issuesParenting issues

Also works with

Stress, AnxietyAddictionsFamily conflictsEating disordersSleeping disordersAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderDepressionCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigue

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAttachment issuesBlended family issuesChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDivorce and separationDomestic violenceEating and food-related issuesFamily problemsForgivenessGuilt and shameInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessLife purposeMidlife crisisMood disordersPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthSelf-loveSocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issues

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Existential TherapyJungian TherapyMindfulness TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySomatic TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family SystemsSystemic Therapy

Experience

6+ years

Listed in

United Kingdom

Languages

English, Portuguese

Questions

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems does she help with?

She works with relationship issues, trauma and abuse, grief, anxiety, stress, addictions and anger among other concerns.

How would you describe her therapeutic style?

Her style is integrative and relational, combining client-centred listening with practical techniques when helpful.

How much experience does she have?

She has six years of experience working in private practice and online settings.

What are her professional credentials and where is she based?

She is BACP accredited and practises in the United Kingdom.

Which languages are sessions offered in?

Sessions are offered in English and Portuguese.

Can people outside the UK work with her?

International clients are not currently accepted.

What formats are available for sessions?

Session formats are not specified here; please confirm current session options before booking.

How does cost and getting started work?

Costs vary by location and sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time; begin by completing the short matching questionnaire and scheduling a first session.

Details come from information the counsellor supplied to BetterHelp. A registration can be checked with the body that issued it.

Online talk therapy is not emergency care. If anyone is unsafe, use the crisis numbers.

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