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Allyson Shaffer

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Allyson Shaffer, LICSW, LCSW-C

Maryland

Licensed social worker - Anger and relationships

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Key details

  • CredentialsLICSW, LCSW-C
  • LicenseLICSW, District of Columbia / LC303507; LCSW-C, Maryland / 12452
  • NPI1033037791
  • Experience20 years
  • LanguagesEnglish
  • LocationMaryland

About

  • Stress and anxiety
  • Family of origin
  • Parenting challenges

About Allyson

Allyson Shaffer is a Licensed Independent Clinical Social Worker (LICSW) in the District of Columbia and a Licensed Certified Social Worker-Clinical (LCSW-C) in Maryland with 20 years of clinical experience. She works with adults facing stress, anxiety, anger, relationship and family concerns, grief, trauma and abuse, and changes like divorce or career shifts. Sessions focus on practical next steps and clearer ways to handle tense moments.

Her approach treats the person as expert in their own life. She listens for what already works, then builds on those strengths to manage strong feelings and repetitive patterns. Conversations tend to be straightforward and action-oriented, looking at what people do between sessions as much as what they say in them.

Allyson helps people sort through family of origin issues, parenting challenges, adoption and foster care questions, attachment concerns, and caregiver stress. She also supports those dealing with shame, isolation, multicultural stress, prejudice, or panic attacks. Anger is one of the areas she lists, so she will address how it shows up in relationships and daily life.

With two decades of practice, Allyson blends evidence-based therapeutic techniques with pragmatic tools. She offers strategies for managing panic, reducing reactivity, and improving communication. She helps clients plan small experiments to try between sessions and review what changed.

Sessions are conducted in English and are based in Maryland. The subscription-based session model can be canceled at any time. To begin, people complete a short matching questionnaire and schedule a first session.

How sessions work

Approaches for managing strong feelings online

Allyson uses evidence-based therapeutic techniques to help people manage anger, anxiety, and relationship stress. Cognitive-based strategies focus on identifying unhelpful thoughts and testing them against real-world evidence to reduce reactivity and worry. Skills-based work teaches clear communication, breathing and grounding methods, and step-by-step plans for responding differently in heated moments.

She also draws on trauma-informed approaches that pay attention to how past experiences shape current reactions. This involves noticing bodily signals, practicing gradual exposure to difficult memories or situations when it feels manageable, and building coping tools to use in everyday life. These methods are commonly used for panic, grief, and patterns rooted in family history.

Finding the right mix of approaches is collaborative. The therapist will talk with each person about goals, preferences, and what has or hasn’t helped before. Together they adjust techniques and try things out until a workable plan emerges.

Confirm the current session options before booking, as specific formats are not listed in the biography. Online work can make it easier to fit sessions into a busy week, allow for shorter check-ins when time is tight, or remove the need to commute. Licensed professionals, including this clinician, use those practical benefits to help people practice new responses between sessions and bring changes into daily life.

Areas of focus

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesFamily conflictsSelf esteemCoping with life changes

Also works with

Trauma and abuseGriefParenting issuesAnger managementCareer difficultiesDepressionCompassion fatigue

Additional focus areas

Adoption and foster careAttachment issuesCaregiver issues and stressCommunication problemsDivorce and separationEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsGuilt and shameIsolation / lonelinessMulticultural concernsPanic disorder and panic attacksPrejudice and discriminationSocial anxiety and phobia

Experience

20+ years

Listed in

District of Columbia, Maryland

Languages

English

Questions

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does she address?

She works with stress, anxiety, anger, relationship and family issues, grief, trauma and related problems listed in her specialties.

What is her therapy style like?

She treats the client as the expert and uses practical, action-focused conversations to build on existing strengths.

How much experience does she have?

She has 20 years of professional clinical experience working with adults on a range of concerns.

What are her credentials and where is she based?

She holds LICSW in the District of Columbia and LCSW-C in Maryland, and her practice is based in Maryland.

Which languages does she offer sessions in?

Sessions are offered in English only.

Does she work with international clients?

She does not accept international clients at this time.

How does billing and cost work?

Cost varies with location and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I get started with her practice?

Begin by selecting the See online therapy options button, completing a short matching questionnaire, and scheduling a first session.

Details come from information the therapist supplied to BetterHelp. A license can be checked with the state board.

Online talk therapy is not emergency care. If anyone is unsafe, use the crisis numbers.

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