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Toni Spera

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Toni Spera, LCSW

New York

LCSW - Anger and Addictions

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Key details

  • CredentialsLCSW
  • LicenseLCSW, New York / 095464
  • NPI1144906819
  • Experience5 years
  • LanguagesEnglish
  • LocationNew York

About

  • CBT techniques
  • DBT skills
  • Motivational interviewing

About Toni

Toni Spera is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) in New York with five years of clinical experience. She works with adults facing issues such as addictions, relationship stress, trauma and abuse, anxiety, depression, grief, parenting strains, and anger. Toni frames clients as the experts in their own stories and focuses on practical steps forward.

In sessions she listens for strengths and practical options people can use right away. She uses straightforward conversation to help clients identify patterns that keep them stuck. Toni combines client-centered listening with structured tools when they fit the situation.

Her work often brings in cognitive behavioral techniques to spot unhelpful thoughts and change behavior. She also uses elements of dialectical behavior therapy for emotion regulation and distress tolerance. Motivational interviewing appears when people are weighing change and need clear, stepwise planning.

Toni pays attention to how stress and relationship dynamics feed into anger and addiction. She helps people build small routines and coping steps that reduce reactivity and make everyday life easier. Sessions focus on what the client can try between meetings and how to adjust when things don’t go as planned.

People can expect a practical, respectful approach that balances listening with concrete tools. Toni aims to collaborate on goals and track progress in ways that feel doable. She supports clients who want to reduce anger, manage urges, repair relationships, or handle major life changes.

How sessions work

How her approaches translate to online sessions

Toni uses client-centered therapy to build a straightforward working relationship. This approach focuses on listening and reflecting so the client can clarify goals and priorities. It helps when someone wants a conversational setting to make sense of feelings and choices.

She also draws on cognitive behavioral therapy, a hands-on method that breaks problems into thoughts, feelings, and actions. CBT is useful for reducing reactive behavior and testing small changes between sessions. Dialectical behavior therapy supplies concrete emotion regulation and distress tolerance skills that can be practiced in daily life when strong anger or urges arise.

Finding the right mix of approaches is part of the process. Toni works collaboratively to decide which methods fit a person's current needs and goals, and she adjusts the plan as progress is tracked.

Session formats are not detailed in the biography, so confirm the current online options before booking. Online work can make it easier to fit sessions into a busy day, allow shorter check-ins when schedules demand, or let clients use video or phone in whatever setting gives them fewer distractions. These practical benefits help translate therapeutic tools into real day-to-day changes.

Areas of focus

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

AddictionsLGBTRelationship issuesTrauma and abuseCompassion fatigue

Also works with

Stress, AnxietyFamily conflictsGriefParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemBipolar disorderDepressionCoping with life changesCoaching

Additional focus areas

Aging and geriatric issuesBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureCodependencyCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionFirst responder issuesVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesPersonality disordersPost-traumatic stressProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Self-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseWomen's issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Mindfulness TherapyMotivational Interviewing

Experience

5+ years

Listed in

New York

Languages

English

Questions

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems does she help with?

Toni supports adults with addictions, trauma and abuse, anxiety, depression, anger, relationship stress, grief, parenting challenges, and related concerns.

How would she approach issues with anger?

She combines client-centered discussion with practical tools such as CBT to spot triggers and DBT skills to manage strong emotions.

What is her clinical background?

She has five years of professional experience working in clinical settings and community care prior to private practice.

Is she credentialed to practice in New York?

Yes. She holds an LCSW credential in New York.

Does she offer sessions in other languages or internationally?

Sessions are offered in English, and international clients are not currently accepted.

What session formats are available?

Please confirm current session options before booking since formats are not specified in the biography.

How are sessions priced?

Cost varies with location and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

What are the first steps to begin working together?

Select the See online therapy options button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule a first session.

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