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Jonathan De Oliveira

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Jonathan De Oliveira, BACP

United Kingdom

BACP counsellor - relationships and anger

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Key details

  • CredentialsBACP
  • RegistrationBACP, United Kingdom / 391649
  • Experience3 years
  • LanguagesEnglish, Portuguese
  • LocationUnited Kingdom

About

  • Psychosynthesis counselling
  • Psychosexual therapy
  • Body and mind connection

About Jonathan

Jonathan De Oliveira is a BACP counsellor practising in the United Kingdom with three years' experience. He sees people for issues including stress, anxiety, relationships, trauma and abuse, self-esteem, depression, grief, intimacy-related issues and anger. Sessions are offered in English and Portuguese, in person in Ealing, West London, and online.

Jonathan describes an integrative, client-centred way of working that draws from different perspectives. He aims to adapt pace and style to what suits each person, and to help them notice patterns that influence their feelings and actions. Work often involves looking at the connection between body and mind and the role of past experiences.

His core training is in Psychosynthesis Counselling. He also holds a COSRT Level 5 certificate in Psychosexual Therapy and a coaching qualification. Those strands are used to inform sessions when relevant to the person’s goals.

Jonathan has experience across teaching, mental health support, and complementary therapies in the UK and abroad. He has worked with The Psychosynthesis Trust, Ealing Abbey Counselling Services, and a mental health charity.

He welcomes conversations about cultural and diversity issues, LGBT and multicultural concerns, and topics such as BDSM, kink, polyamory and alternative sex culture. He offers preparation and integration support related to psychedelic experiences for harm reduction, while not providing or encouraging illegal psychedelic-assisted work.

Practical details: sessions can be short-term or ongoing, and international clients are accepted. Fees vary with location and are delivered through a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time.

How sessions work

Approaches used in online sessions

Jonathan’s work draws on Psychosynthesis Counselling, which looks at how different parts of a person relate and how inner conflicts can be understood and worked with. This approach often helps when patterns of anger or shame link back to earlier life events or identity struggles.

He also brings psychosexual therapy skills when intimacy, sexual concerns or kink-related issues are part of the difficulty. That work focuses on practical communication, boundaries and understanding sexual response and consent in relationships.

Finding the right way of working is part of the process. Jonathan aims to discuss options with each person and agree a way forward together based on their needs, goals and preferences. That means reviewing what feels helpful and adjusting methods over time.

Practical benefits of online sessions include fitting meetings around work or family commitments and avoiding travel time. Online work can make it easier to access an English- or Portuguese-speaking therapist from outside the local area. Confirm which session formats are being offered before booking so you know how appointments will be run.

Areas of focus

Areas of expertise

Also works with

LGBTFamily conflictsGriefIntimacy-related issuesAnger managementCareer difficultiesCoping with life changesCompassion fatigue

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAttachment issuesBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBody imageCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsGuilt and shameIsolation / lonelinessLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMulticultural concernsPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Self-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySomatization

Experience

3+ years

Listed in

United Kingdom

Languages

English, Portuguese

Questions

Frequently asked questions

Which concerns does he help with?

He works with stress, anxiety, relationship problems, trauma and abuse, self-esteem, depression, grief, intimacy issues and anger among other concerns.

What is his therapeutic style?

He uses an integrative, client-centred approach that adapts pace and methods to what the person needs.

How much experience does he have?

He has three years of professional practice and experience in teaching, mental health support and complementary therapies.

What are his credentials and where is he based?

He is BACP registered and practises in Ealing, West London, United Kingdom.

Which languages are supported?

Sessions are offered in English and Brazilian Portuguese, and he accepts international clients.

What session formats are available?

The biography lists in-person work in Ealing and online sessions; confirm current session options before booking.

How are fees arranged?

Cost varies with location and sessions use a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I begin working with him?

Select the See online therapy options button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule a first session.

Details come from information the counsellor supplied to BetterHelp. A registration can be checked with the body that issued it.

Online talk therapy is not emergency care. If anyone is unsafe, use the crisis numbers.

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