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Erin  Chilelli

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Erin Chilelli , LCSW

New York

Licensed clinical social worker - Anger and relationships

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Key details

  • CredentialsLCSW
  • LicenseLCSW, New York / 101212
  • NPI1215806294
  • Experience10 years
  • LanguagesEnglish
  • LocationNew York

About

  • Stress and anxiety
  • Parenting support
  • Grief and loss

About Erin

Erin Chilelli is a licensed clinical social worker (LCSW) in New York with 10 years of professional experience. She works with adults on common life stresses and relationship strains, including anxiety, parenting challenges, grief, and anger. Her practice also includes support for career concerns, self-esteem, and coping with major life changes.

Erin focuses on straightforward, practical conversations that help people manage overwhelming feelings. She listens for how stress and resentment show up day to day, then helps people notice patterns and try different ways of responding. Sessions are aimed at clarifying goals and testing small changes that can make daily life easier.

Her background includes work with issues tied to family systems, adoption and foster care, caregiver strain, and pregnancy or postpartum transitions. She also supports people navigating divorce or separation, fertility and women's health related concerns, and challenges common to young adults.

Erin uses evidence-based therapeutic techniques to guide sessions rather than relying on a single method. Her approach balances practical coaching with clinical insight to address trauma, compassion fatigue, and ADHD-related struggles when these come up. Discussions typically move between skills practice and processing difficult emotions.

People who come for help with intimacy problems, relationship tension, or ongoing anger will find focused attention on communication and self-regulation. To begin, visitors are asked to use the site's matching process to schedule a first session and map out next steps.

How sessions work

How evidence-based techniques guide online work

Erin uses evidence-based therapeutic techniques that focus on clear strategies and skills practice. One commonly used approach involves teaching practical coping skills for stress and anxiety, such as breathing, pacing, and short behavioral experiments to reduce reactivity. These methods help people test small changes and notice what works in daily life.

Another frequent focus is communication and emotion-regulation work that teaches ways to express needs without escalating into anger. This includes concrete rehearsal of phrases, timing, and boundary-setting alongside reflection on triggers. These strategies are useful for relationship tension, intimacy issues, and workplace frustration.

Choosing the right approach is a collaborative process. The therapist will work with each client to identify goals, try methods that fit their situation, and adjust based on what helps. Clients are invited to give feedback so sessions reflect their priorities and pace of change.

Confirm the available session formats before booking, as the therapist's biography does not list specific options. Online therapy can make it easier to fit sessions into a busy week, allow shorter check-ins when needed, and reduce travel time. Talk with the therapist during the matching process about how to structure sessions to fit your schedule and needs.

Areas of focus

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyFamily conflictsGriefParenting issuesSelf esteem

Also works with

Relationship issuesTrauma and abuseIntimacy-related issuesAnger managementCareer difficultiesDepressionCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

Adoption and foster careCaregiver issues and stressDivorce and separationFamily problemsFertility issuesLife purposePostpartum depressionPregnancy and childbirthWomen's issuesYoung adult issues

Experience

10+ years

Listed in

New York

Languages

English

Questions

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does she address?

She works with stress, anxiety, grief, parenting issues, relationship tension, anger, career changes, and related concerns listed in her profile.

How would you describe her therapeutic style?

Her style is practical and conversational. She focuses on identifying patterns, trying new responses, and setting clear goals.

How much experience does she have?

She has 10 years of professional work experience as a clinician in New York.

What are her credentials and location?

She is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW, practicing in New York.

What languages are available for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can international clients work with her?

She does not accept international clients at this time.

How are sessions billed and what does it cost?

Cost varies by location and sessions use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.

What are the steps to get started?

Select the See online therapy options button, complete the short matching questionnaire, and schedule a first session.

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Online talk therapy is not emergency care. If anyone is unsafe, use the crisis numbers.

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